Capt. Jeffrey P. Toczylowski

A Special Forces Detachment Commander

1st Battalion, 10th Special Forces Group

based at Panzer Kaserne, Germany

Special Forces Condolences Book

     
  Dear friends and family, 

If you are getting this email, it means that I have passed away. No, it's not a sick Toz joke, but a letter I wanted to write in case this happened. Please don't be sad for me. It was an honor to serve my country, and I wouldn't change a thing. It was just my time. 

Don't ever think that you are defending me by slamming the Global War on Terrorism or the US goals in that war. As far as I am concerned, we can send guys like me to go after them or we can wait for them to come back to us again. I died doing something I believed in and have no regrets except that I couldn't do more. 

This will probably be the longest email most of you have ever received from me. More that one of you complained on multiple occasions about my brief emails. 

I have requested to be buried in Arlington National Cemetery and would like you to attend, but I understand if you can't make it. 

There will also be a party in Vegas with a 100k to help pay for travel, room, and a party. I want you to be happy for the time we had, not the future we won't. 

Never regret not calling, writing enough, keeping in touch, or visiting. I was always away and thought of you all as much, if not more, than you thought of me. Time keeps rolling and so should my family and friends. The only thing I ask is that you toast me every so often, because you know I'll be watching and wanting to be with you. Don't spend any time crying for me, because I'll bet you I am having a ball right now wherever I am. 

I will look in on all of you and help whenever I can. I love you all!
 
     



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